Category: Healing

Healing, Inspirational

Stop tripping over the past.

Pamela Dawn

“I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” Philippians 3:12-14

Have you ever felt stuck in your past? Or maybe there are things you want to do, things you know you should do, but somehow, you are unable to go forward. Have you ever been unable to forgive, whether it be yourself or someone else, and it paralyzes you in some way? Or maybe you have a dream that you have left behind, forgotten. We have all heard the excuses.

I’m too old. I missed my chance. They won’t believe me. I can’t do anything right. I am not qualified. I won’t make it. They won’t listen. Good things don’t come my way.

Maybe you are guilty of this yourself. Maybe you love someone who keeps tripping over the past, and you just know God has more for them.

But forget all that—it is nothing compared to what I am going to do. For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland. Isa 43:18-19

Interestingly, many of us find ourselves wandering in the wilderness. We feel just like this…a dry wasteland. Washed up. Done. But what happens to a seed in dry soil when you water it? New life! God says He will create rivers in the dry wasteland. Oftentimes, we are simply the seed in dry soil that needs watered. We were never meant to sit dormant in the soil.

I am thankful Paul did not stumble over his past. He not only had to deal with the thoughts in his own head, but he was surrounded by doubters who could only look at the man they used to know. They were looking at him with their past vision.

But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life. 1 Tim 1:16

At my first defense, no one came to my support, but everyone deserted me. May it not be held against them. 2 Tim 4:16

Paul called himself the “worst of sinners.” He persecuted Christians. He was prideful. And when the Lord met him on the road that day, everything changed. He received mercy. He recognized God had patience in him. And even in his abandonment, even when faced with doubters, even when he himself was persecuted and thrown in jail and beaten, he went forward into an incredible 35-year ministry building churches, encouraging believers, and writing a large part of the New Testament. He never once looked back.

The remembering of the past should only be for the glory of God and for our spiritual benefit.

Then he said to the crowd, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross daily, and follow me. Luke 9:23

Jesus told us this is a daily deal. We take up our cross daily because each day brings new challenges, new circumstances. The word “new” here is kainos (Kai NOS’) new in quality, fresh in development – not found exactly like this before. It is superior to what it succeeds.

You cannot look back at what you did (or left undone) in the past through the eyes of who you are now. You have gained experience, wisdom and knowledge along the way. The decisions you made then cannot be seen properly through your eyes now. You would not have been capable of making the decision then as you see it now. Leave the thing in the past where it belongs. It has become a story, a season, a memory. But it is not a reflection of who you are now. Today is kainos – not found exactly like this before.

Sometimes we need to go through the valley before we can appreciate the mountaintop. Only when we have done this can we look down and enjoy the beauty of the valley. Consider that thing you did or that situation you went through might be the springboard for the very thing you are going to do now.

Let’s look at Peter. When things got scary, he denied knowing Christ, even after Jesus told him he would, and he looked at Him and said there was no way He could ever do that. He would die for Him! Later, Jesus meets him on the shore and tells Peter, “Feed my sheep.” I can only imagine the shame Peter felt as he looked upon Jesus, knowing that Jesus knew what he had done. Yet Jesus demonstrated pure love. Peter accepted the beautiful gift of grace. This unschooled man (he did not let that stop him either) spoke with boldness to crowds of thousands and brought them the Good News. He performed many miracles and God used him to reveal to the world that Christ died for all.

Elijah ran, Jonah hid, David feared, Thomas doubted, Peter denied, Paul persecuted.  But they all chose not to stay in that place of stumbling.  They put their hope in God and moved forward, sometimes doing it afraid, but still going forward.

Friends, let’s not miss it.  He has good things for you.

Grace & Peace,

For I know the plans I have for you,” says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. Jer 29:11

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Do not be afraid.

Pamela Dawn

But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God.

The words resonated as I looked at them on the page. I thought about Mary and pondered what must have been going through her mind. An angel had just visited her and announced, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” Fear would have filled my heart as I reasoned that what he was about to say next could not possibly be good. The Bible tells us Mary was “greatly troubled.” Gabriel goes on to tell her not to be afraid. Oh, my, I think….this can’t be OK. It reminded me of the phone call I once received where the first words my child announced were, “Don’t worry, I’m OK!” I knew what he was about to say next was not something I wanted to hear.

What is so beautiful about our Father is He KNOWS. He knows our flesh is weak. He knows that sometimes in that weakness, everything we know to be true about Him goes right out the window the moment fear smacks us in the head. So He does what every good parent does….He reassures us, “It is going to be OK.”

The angel Gabriel explains to Mary what was about to happen and he concludes with more words of assurance…

For no word from God will ever fail.”

This is most certainly a message for today. Let’s be real. 2020 has been a difficult year for just about everyone. More than ever, people are weary, broken, fearful, and anxious. But God’s words are as true today as they were to Mary over 2000 years ago. For the believer, we know who the Savior is. The true message of Christmas is not wrapped up in giving gifts, making cookies, or decking the halls. The message here is to remember His words spoken by the angel, “For no word from God will ever fail.” Ever.

Romans 8:28 tells us, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Mary knew this. And her response to Gabriel is shockingly brave.

And Mary said, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.”

She didn’t bolt. She didn’t question. She put her trust in what God spoke to her through Gabriel that day. I encourage you to enter into this new year with the brave attitude of young Mary. We can only imagine the fear and uncertainty that must have been running through her mind. There were going to be many challenges in her journey. But she received simple truth. God’s word will never fail. She received reassurance and chose to move forward with grace and boldness.

So Father, I trust your message of reassurance as Mary did so many years ago. I am Your servant. Let it be to me according to Your word. Thank you Father for knowing me, loving me, and for giving me the gift of hope and for teaching me courage through the story of Mary, for I know you work ALL things for my good. I choose to not be afraid. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Merry Christmas Friends,

In Christ-

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I see beauty everywhere.

Pamela Dawn

My first reaction was unease. I felt numb as I stared at the TV and listened to our leaders explain that schools would be closed, businesses closed, travel restricted, and life as we know it would to come to a sudden halt. My thoughts immediately shifted to how can I keep my family healthy, how are we going to pay the mortgage, how will I keep the kids occupied, who will care for the seniors and others living alone? WILL WE BE OK? It is easy when suddenly confronted with change to fear what is unknown and forget the peace we were just living in only moments before. But then I remembered.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid. John 14:27

Life has taught me to look past the obvious and to look a little deeper to see what God is doing. I have learned to hold on to peace in the midst of the storm. So I caught myself before I journeyed too far down that lane of fear. I made a decision that I was not going to allow our present situation with the covid-19 virus to change my thinking or to change what I already know. I would exercise wisdom, but I refused to let fear come in the door.

Life is busy. Despite the vast possibilities with technology, we have become a disconnected, material-driven, overwhelmed, and weary society. Our to-do lists have become longer than our dreams list. Families do not engage with one another and technology has replaced relationship. Neighbors don’t talk over the fence. Elderly sit home alone and stare at the phone that never rings. Social media swallows up inordinate amounts of time. Creating and reading have become lost arts. We forget the things that we were once passionate about. Dreams are put on hold or forgotten.

Perhaps it was time for change. I knew I was ready for a slow down. And so were many of you. I have been praying for the sick and for the separated families who cannot be there to comfort their loved ones. But I have also been praying for the families that are now finding themselves home, together, with an incredible opportunity to be family again. I have been celebrating the re-connections that parents are making with their children. I have been enjoying the creative means that people are using to re-engage. I am enjoying listening to families sitting outside in our neighborhood, laughing and talking. In the midst of our upside down world, I see beauty everywhere.

I love to peruse Facebook just to view the finished home projects, artist works, new music, and love being shared in unique, creative ways. Neighbors are talking over the fence offering help and swapping stories. People are reaching out to shut-ins and helping them with their shopping, errands and yard work. Siblings are playing together and crafting sidewalk chalk art. People are giving generously. Those that are not working are reaching out to help those on the front lines battling the illness in the hospitals and urgent cares. Gardens are getting planted, children are learning to cook, and new hobbies are being learned. We are creating a community in our neighborhoods and towns. People are caring. Lives matter. Love is here.

I sat outside this morning listening to the world wake up. The birds were chattering. The sky was a beautiful blue with streams of sunlight beaming overhead. It felt good to disconnect from the news, from the phone, and from the uncertainty. Yes, there is much to be concerned about. The majority of people on this earth have never seen anything like this. But I see good emerging. It is spring here where we live. Flowers are poking through the earth, trees are blossoming, and the breeze is blowing. There is new life all around. But it has also become “spring” in our homes. As I feel the world waking up around me, I realize that we are all in a new season where we are re-learning to celebrate one another. We are remembering what is important. We are living again. I am enjoying this fresh breath of life. I am enjoying my family around me each day as we connect. I am smiling again as I slow down and reflect on what really matters and learn new things and rediscover old passions. I encourage you to pause and look at the world through these new lenses. It’s time to experience living again. Beauty is everywhere. We just need to look.

Sending virtual hugs….until we can meet again.

To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:

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Love them anyway.

Pamela Dawn

“Just love them anyway. I’ll sort ’em out later. God.”

When I read stories in the Bible, I find myself completely immersed, soaking in the atmosphere and experiencing the emotions. We all want to believe that somehow, we would have reacted with grace or better judgement, but really, how well would we have been able to control our own human response? Would we stand out or fall in line with the crowd?

“Early in the morning He went back into the temple courts. All the people came to Him, and He sat down to teach them. The scribes and Pharisees, however, brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before them and said, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery.”

I imagine the damp morning air as the woman was standing there in utter despair, gasping for breath as fear grips her chest and she gazes at her accusers, legs feeling weak. I imagined the loneliness and betrayal she must have experienced as she stood alone.

“In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such a woman. So what do You say?” They said this to test Him, in order to have a basis for accusing Him. But Jesus bent down and began to write on the ground with His finger.”

I can sense the dead silence in the heavy air as everyone around Him waits in anticipation. Actually, these men were not even interested in what happened to the woman. I can hear her heart pounding as she looks at Jesus in desperation, eyes crying out for mercy. 

“When they continued to question Him, He straightened up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to cast a stone at her.” And again He bent down and wrote on the ground.”

I imagine the look of bewilderment on her face as the woman realized the gift of mercy that had been granted to her. Still frozen in terror, she was perhaps unsure how to process what was happening. I have witnessed this response in people. It is almost disbelief. Could this be real? The world does not love this way. I imagine the stunned faces of the men, who even then did not understand love, but were more concerned about self-preservation.

“When they heard this, they began to go away one by one, beginning with the older ones, until only Jesus was left, with the woman standing there.”

Have you ever experienced a moment like this when in an instant, every muscle in your body relaxes, you exhale, and you realize it’s over; it is going to be OK? Can you see her face – the tears flowing – as she gazes upon Jesus with relief, awe, amazement?

“Then Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are your accusers? Has no one condemned you?”“No one, Lord,” she answered.“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Now go and sin no more.”

And there it is. LOVE. Self-less, beautiful, real.  The woman, in her darkest moment, received the most perfect gift we can give.  Pure, merciful love.  I can only imagine the shock mixed with joy as the woman looked into the eyes of Love Himself.  Incredible.

We are surrounded today by people similar to the individuals in this story.  There are some who are puffed up with entitlement, self-righteousness, and apathy.  Some are plagued with complacency.  It is difficult to discern true love or what it even means when Jesus says we are to love one another.  The word love itself has become so distorted.  And the act of love is treated as a commodity, withheld when someone does not agree with our agenda or we do not live up to their standards. We shut ourselves off from others out of entitlement, inconsiderate of the consequences.

But in this story, Jesus gives us a perfect example of what it means to love one another.  I remember praying one day and asking God to give me the ability to see others the way He sees them.  I wanted to look past their mistakes, their denomination, their political views or their family history.  Regardless of what we see on the outside, regardless of what one will admit, we all need the same thing this woman needed.  We need love and we need to be heard. We are created in His image. And He is love personified. And therefore, so are we.

Do everything in love. 1 Cor 16:14

It was as if the scales had fallen from my eyes. When I began to connect with people in a real way, I saw change.  When I spoke to them because they mattered, I saw light in their eyes.   Our world suffers from an epidemic of self.  In this world of “me first” we have forgotten how to love one another, empathize with our fellow human, and forgive.  In a dream one night, I clearly heard God say, “Love them anyway.”  Love them despite it all. The moment was so intense I was changed.  They need it.  And when I began loving them anyway, I felt a shift in my own heart.  Joy overcame despair.  Peace overcame fear.  Purpose overcame regret.

I know this is hard.  After all, people have hurt us.  I tell people, don’t do it for them, do it for YOU.  And as you do it for you, and YOU get free, others will see the change in you.  Your joy becomes contagious.  And one by one, in our own little corner of the world, we can invite change for the better.  Jesus did it. He still does it today.  And so should we. ♥♥♥

Passages taken from John 8: 1-11

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A new day.

Pamela Dawn

Our lives have been unexpectedly upended. We are certainly floating on uncharted waters, and I have been encouraging people to “find the good.” Media makes it easy for everyone to focus on the negative, opening doors for fear, anxiety, and worry. I have always found peace in Isaiah 55:8

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.”








Meditating on these words so often has given me the beautiful habit of looking at what others (including me) are not seeing.  Our flesh tends to focus on the natural.  We see others anxious, we become anxious.  We see others buying half a year of toilet tissue, off we trot to the store (smile now, it’s true).  But what is GOD doing?  What good things are being seeded into?  I see families finally sitting down together at a table over a shared meal.  I see moms and kids working together on a school art project.  I see garden beds being planted on time this year.  I see someone finally picking up that book they have wanted to read for a year.  I see people working in their garages, working on projects, or finally painting that guest room.  





I see smiles, I hear laughter, I smell cookies baking…. I see people taking TIME. 





God is all about you.  He is all in when He sees His children doing what they enjoy.  Yes, these days have hardship and most of us have been touched in some profound way.  As a nation and as people, we have been through a lot.  But the truth is, we WILL get through this.  Some day, this will be a story we all tell.  But my wish is to see people come out of this for the better.  My hope is that once we get a renewed sense of  living and of loving one another,  we won’t want to return the busy, distracted world full of disconnects and unfulfilled hearts.  












For I am about to do something new.  See, I have already begun!  Do you not see it?  I will make a pathway through the wilderness.  I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.





Do you not see it?  Have you been in the wilderness, wandering back and forth aimlessly as you simply work to get through the next day?  A pathway has been created.  Our dry wastelands are beginning to flourish with fresh waters as we re-position, re-establish, restore, and reconnect.  Find the good in these days.  It’s time to live again.  Cheers to you…





Love in Christ,





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Beauty in Brokenness
	


	

							

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Like so many times before, I walked along the beach searching for little treasures. This day was different as my eye was drawn to beauty commonly overlooked. As the ocean waves retreated over my feet, I was fixed on the glistening objects that remained. I bent down to pick up what appeared to be a complete shell. I soon discovered it was flawed by the rough waters. Normally I would toss the shell back into the water, but today, the Lord chose to use this broken shell to speak to me.


He has made everything beautiful in its time… Ecclesiastes 3:11


In its time. This shell was once whole and perfect, serving a purpose. And now it is broken, flawed, and without any discernible use. Yet the scripture says it is made beautiful in its time. I thought, “Isn’t that like some of us?”


The early morning sun produced a beautiful glow on the shell in my hand. I began to look more closely at the intricate pattern, the rough-looking edges that were now smooth, and the possibilities with this small piece.




I began to see the beauty in its brokenness.




As I looked at the people around me I realized we are all the same. We begin life unmarred, whole, and hope-filled. In time, as we are tossed around in life’s sea, we become rough on the edges, imperfect. Sometimes the edges are sharp and they hurt others. Perhaps like this shell, we once were purposed, but the waters of life have changed us, and we no longer see ourselves as beautiful.


Some fall into the pit of regret. Others choose denial. Maybe we long for the days when life was full, when we felt victorious, powerful, loved, honored, useful.


You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you. -Song of Solomon 4:7


Suddenly my eyes were opened and I saw the stunning beauty of this broken shell in my hand. The broken edges had been smoothed during its journey through the rough waters. The shell’s beauty was no longer defined by its wholeness. It is now defined by its brokenness. A new purpose has emerged as a result of going through the journey. If everyone had the perfect life surrounded by perfect people and perfect circumstances, we wouldn’t need a Savior. Jesus said, “They that are whole have no need of the physician, but they that are sick: I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.” He came for the broken, not the whole. He came for me.


God reminded me that in our weakness, we are made strong in Him. New beauty emerges from the waters of life. Character develops that would be impossible if we never experienced those “rough waters.” At some point, we fix our gaze on the One who created us. We reach a point of brokenness before Him when we finally acknowledge we cannot do this without Him. And He gazes upon His altogether lovely one, and sees beauty in the brokenness. The I AM sees you. Like the shell, you are broken, yet very much whole. Your brokenness becomes your new platform. Your purpose is redefined, reshaped, and re-invented.


I took the shell home as a reminder. I re-purposed it and now have something beautiful to remind me…There is beauty in brokenness. I AM whole. I AM filled with purpose. And I AM beautiful to the I AM. I am His altogether lovely one.